Ethics & Values
1. Trust. Your trust, safety, and confidentiality are sacred. This is the foundation of everything I do.
2. Pleasure-Based and sex-honoring: Pleasure is life-force. It is the renewable resource that fuels all creativity, joy, and secure relationships. I am committed to making the world safe for every single person’s full, free erotic expression and joy. I practice pleasure as a central value, coming from a place of joy and resource personally and professionally. It is the heart of my mission to reconnect you with your own ultimate sources of ongoing pleasure.
3. Body as teacher: while I offer guidance and expertise, you are the ultimate expert in your body. Your body knows your authentic Yes and No. I observe, witness, mirror, invite you into experiences and offer resources to support your growth. These are invitations, always. In my service to you, know that you are always in choice. Your body is the ultimate guide for your life.
4. Informed Consent / Non-exploitation: I understand that in the field of sexuality, change and growth require lowering defenses and becoming profoundly vulnerable. I see my role as creating impeccably safe spaces for this level of work. I will never take advantage of any confidential or vulnerable information or state. I will inform you beforehand about any proposed experiences and require your specific, informed, and willing consent before engaging in any activity, conversation, or process with you.
5. Honesty and commitment to repair: authentic, healthy relationships are based in transparency. That includes acknowledging that, while I hold the highest standards of professional conduct, this kind of deep work inherently includes the possibility of missed communication and confusion. I know that these places of conflict are opportunities to build the greatest trust, when acknowledged and addressed with integrity and compassion. If there is every anything that happens in our work together that does not feel good to you, I ask that you are honest and transparent in letting me know as soon as the issue arises, and I commit to working with you until we both feel complete in repairing trust.
6.Simplicity: Truth = simplicity. I will always offer information and explanations in the simplest terms. If there is ever anything you do not understand, I ask that you let me know so you receive the clearest and simplest form of support, always.
7. Inclusivity: I believe pleasure and unconditional love are the birthright of every human in every body. This work is appropriate for those who are ready and committed to profound change. I select clients based on this value. Within that, I am honored to serve all bodies without exception: LGBTQIA+, all body types, body shapes, ages, genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and relationship styles. I support and nurture all relationship styles including monogamy, ENM, and Polyamory.
8. Consciousness and intentionality: I seek to bring conscious awareness to every choice and action, personally, collectively, and in my interactions with those I serve. All my teaching, coaching, educational and experiential work is in service of transmitting loving embodied awareness in this present moment.
9. Empowerment for the benefit of all: while I welcome and delight in ongoing relationships with clients past and present, my goal is for you to “graduate” and complete your work with me, so that you can become a light. My highest goal is that the ripple effect of your empowered, embodied, pleasure-based example creates even more pleasure, erotic expansion, consciousness, trust, safety, creativity, embodiment, and freedom in the world!