Devotional Kink
This is the space were Sacred meets Shadow. Where Devotion meets Desire. Yes, you can play in this deep, dark, delicious in-between. YES you can have it all.
Registration for my online Deeper Devotion Masterclass is open! Class begins the first week of February 2025. This Masterclass will give you all the basics you need to play intentionally, consensually, creatively, and full out in this incredibly profound, passionate, and transformative realm.
Kink is PLAY. It’s where we can bring our wild side – our primal, uncivilized, uncensored desires. Devotional Kink includes all that wildness – and also invites our longing for the Sacred: to meet the God/Goddess within us. When we create sacred, consensual spaces for this level of engagement, there’s room for ALL of you.
Bring your Mystic. Your Seductress. Your Don Juan. Your Sadist. Your Little, Your Queen, Your Dark Lord. Every part of you, touches the divine. Here, we meet in that field beyond Rightdoing and Wrongdoing, and there is room for every way we want to play: formal, primal, worshipful, deliriously sensual, intensely threatening, wildly expressed, soul-level soothing.
Devotional Kink allows us to weave myth and fairy tale, archetype and Shadow, in a direct, embodied, physical way where we step out of our ordinary lives, out of ordinary time and space, and play in the field of the gods.
Not only does Devotional Kink have a place in loving, conscious, healthy relationships, but can be channeled to heal deep trauma and stubborn resentment, and enhances vulnerable, authentic connection in extraordinary ways.
When done intentionally and consensually, Devotional Kink can lead to delicious altered states, soul healing, and transformative, and intimate connection beyond your wildest fantasies.
The essence of Devotional Kink is this: we make an explicit agreement to deliberately bold and wicked together. To break the rules, together. Because we’ve agreed on what, and how, and most importantly – why – and invited each other into all of that with an enthusiastic YES – OMG it’s SO PLAYFUL!
You become partners in crime; you become one being surfing waves of sensation and connection through the conduit of two (or more) bodies. You feel sacred, loved, seen, innocent, powerful, and beautiful. You feel fully accepted and free.
Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) is one of my favorite areas of play, and it is full of paradox. You may be bound and restrained, and yet never felt so liberated. You may want to deliver intense sensation – fear, or “pain” – to a play partner, and by the gorgeous alchemy in their body, your physical connection, and your shared awareness of your experience, you can turn that into ecstatic altered states and POWER. It feels like love – because it is love, delivered in just the way you both want it most.
However you choose to play, the essence is devotion: placing your full loving attention on another, and recognizing in them, the Divine. Especially in the parts of them that they would prefer to hide, or avoid. These, too, are Sacred – especially Sacred, especially powerful, when you bring them out in order to elevate and transmute them into unshaming, erotic delight, epic pleasure, and Unconditional Love.
It’s delicious to play with all the toys — but you don’t need any special equipment for Devotional Kink.
There are foundational tools and practices to set the container, create a dedicated, sacred space, and drop into safety and trust together.
I’ll be teaching all of these in my Deeper Devotion Masterclass starting in February, 2025. (See first section, above.)
Being witnessed in your Kinkiest, ”darkest,” deepest desires
by those who not only accept but who celebrate those desires
can bring some of the most healing, beautiful,
and peak erotic experiences available.
When you do this in a loving relationship, it exponentially expands what is erotically possible for everyone involved.
My Deeper Devotion Masterclass 2025 (see above) will give you all the tools you need to create your own experiences of joyful, happy, down-and-dirty, mind-blowingly satisfying Devotional Kink.
… and if you want an even deeper dive, or to learn in person, hands on with me? Ah, we can create that too.
Apply now for your own personalized, Devotional Kink Mentorship Journey.