Women and Sisterhood
Long ago, in a (Silicon) Valley far far away… I met Heidi. We were deeply in disguise. Learning to survive in a Tech Bro world. Dressing in camouflage (nothing too…
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On Dominance, Submission, and Enlightened Sadism
“Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective…
Read MoreSexological Bodywork and Trans Bodies
My friend, the brilliant Marti Stany, works with LGBTQIA+ people navigating the military culture and work space. She asked if/how Sexological Bodywork and scar tissue remediation could work for mastectomy…
Read MoreDoes Monogamy Create Insecurity? Does Polyamory?
This is in response to a friend who posted a link about whether monogamy makes us insecure. Great question. Short answer: no. Here’s where I go with it: Monogamy doesn’t…
Read MoreWAR AND SEX: How to Win
Someone raised the question this morning in a discussion group about the parallels between war and sex. They were talking about power, but I see another connection, one I got…
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