Trauma Release: Healing Scars Seen and Unseen
Do you already do relationships differently, now? Are you curious about opening your relationship? About what it might be like to have more than one romantic or sexual partner? Do you want to learn how to navigate non-monogamy in a way that feels intentional, conscious, consensual, supportive, and good to everyone concerned? Do you struggle with jealousy or feelings of inadequacy in your relationship, whether monogamous or otherwise?
Polyamory & Open Relationships
Do you already do relationships differently, now? Are you curious about opening your relationship? About what it might be like to have more than one romantic or sexual partner? Do you want to learn how to navigate non-monogamy in a way that feels intentional, conscious, consensual, supportive, and good to everyone concerned? Do you struggle with jealousy or feelings of inadequacy in your relationship, whether monogamous or otherwise?
I see you, I get it, and I can help.
I have helped hundreds of people just like you to explore how to invite and connect with new partners, navigate threesomes or moresomes, understand what they really want in their relationship landscape, how to get your needs met, ask for what you want, set and hold to clear boundaries in a firm and loving way, and discover the joys and benefits, and also some of the known pitfalls and areas of struggle and growth, in ethical non-monogamy.
I’m polyamorous and partnered, and have been in a super hot, very sexy, deeply loving and thriving long-distance poly relationship and dating for many years. I’ve trained and studied with some of the leaders in the ethical non-monogamy community, spoken and taught at Poly Living gatherings in New Mexico, Colorado and Philadelphia, and applied all of that collective expertise in my own life and with my clients, with great results!
I can help you:
- get clear about whether non-monogamy is right for you
- ask the important questions in opening up an existing relationship, and avoid common painful mistakes
- discover all the layers of what “jealousy” really means, and how to manage it, and even welcome it and grow because of it
- learn how to repair the hurt and resentment caused by consent violations and breaches in trust - Consistently, completely, and permanently, so everyone can stop trying to be perfect and instead feel confident that any hurts can actually be opportunities for even greater intimacy and trust
- have clear conversations about sexual health and safety with more than one partner
- learn what kind of non-monogamy may work best for you (kitchen table poly, open relating, swinging, Solo poly, etc.)
- understand the difference between boundaries and controlling your partner
- use the Erotic Blueprints™ to discover your own road map to sexual pleasure, and learn to be a great lover to any kind of partner!