Better sex. More pleasure. More peace. Less drama. Secure, lasting love and authentic intimacy.

Somatic Sexologist & Trauma Specialist | Boulder, CO| Immersions, Bodywork, and Virtual Sessions

Isn't it time you felt:
• Whole
• Loving
• Powerful
• Safe and open

• Sexy and alive
• Grounded
• Connected?

• Body-based trauma healing
• Proven pathways to revive intimacy in your relationship
• Consent, communication, and boundary coaching
•Real, relatable sex education •Dating coaching for newly single adults
•Recover self-trust, agency, belonging, and safety after trauma

What I want for you, is that you learn how to improve your sex life and access your body's healing wisdom. I help you create new experiences for your nervous system and in your relationships: reliable, repeatable experiences of safety, self-trust, pleasure, and authentic choice.

Reactivity, fawning, and people pleasing are trauma patterns formed and woven into your body and emotional responses over time. The good news is: they can be transformed into new habits of curiosity, relational openness, loving boundaries, and sustainable, resourced sensitivity.

Free the fullness of your body and being. Learn to build intimacy in long-term relationships, and explore safety, pleasure, intimacy, and sex as your pathways to wellness, personal discovery, and spiritual growth.

Isn't it time you felt:
• Whole
• Loving
• Safe and open
• Playful and alive
• Grounded
• Resourced
• Happy?


WHO I HELP:

SINGLES: Transform Your Relationship with Yourself First

Are  you secretly afraid you’re undatable, that you’ll never get what you want, and you’ll always be alone? Or you just know there’s a lot more to sex and pleasure, and you’re ready for big learning and expansion?

THERE IS SO MUCH MORE TO SEX. AND LOVE.

I help you to be seen and loved and celebrated for ALL of who you are.

Here’s what happens with my individual clients: they come for themselves, for healing, self-discovery, and to expand their sexual vocabulary and wellness. Then, once they find all that embodied pleasure and confidence… they come back, because they’ve found the love they’ve longed for, and now they want support in creating the best, most loving, and most satisfying relationship possible. I want that for you, too!

No matter how long you’ve felt stuck, you can learn to play for what may be the first time in your life. It’s not too late. You’re right on time! A whole universe of new adventures and pleasures awaits! A new you awaits: nourished and shining in all your glorious, unleashed, unfettered, unapologetic joy, fully present in your life. Living, loving, and creating from a place of resource and ease.

 

All you have to do… is say Yes!

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COUPLES: Reignite Intimacy After Years Together

Do you find yourself in a relationship where your sex life has flatlined? You love each other. SO much.. but you’re secretly afraid you’ll be stuck in a sexless relationship… or worse, lose each other.

… or maybe things are great! But you’ve been together forever, and now you want to explore what more is erotically possible?

I’ve got you!

I specialize in sexual health for couples who have been together 10, 20, 30 years or more. It’s heartbreaking when you’ve loved each other so long, and so deeply, and yet sex and loving feel stuck and stale. I gently — sometimes fiercely! — guide you in reigniting love, trust, playfulness, and desire. 

Work with me to release the “scar tissue” of physical and emotional barriers between you. Re-create your relationship as the source of your shared evolution. Get hands-on sex education you never had so you can learn to touch each other in new incredible ways. Build new pathways to loving communication and joyful arousal that nourish and grow your bond for a lifetime.

IF YOU ARE HEALING: I Can Help.

 Most of us carry some level of trauma. Sometimes we don’t realize the truth of it many years: that we have had overwhelming experiences that impacted us in many ways: early childhood or sexual trauma, neglect, physical scars from injuries or surgeries, shaming of our desires and big emotions.

We carry the impact of those experiences in our bodies. It can feel like a life sentence… and it’s not!

Trauma therapy, and talk therapy, can be helpful to begin to unravel the effects of trauma, but because of the way trauma becomes wove into our bodies, it’s often not enough. Body-based trauma healing allows us to bypass the rational, doubting mind and negative thought patterns, and speak directly to the ANS (autonomic nervous system) and the deep intelligence of the body. 

Even if scars or trauma have been held in your body and nervous system for years — or decades — let me help. We will meet, map, and repattern them. For good!

If you feel ready, then maybe it’s time to reclaim pleasure and belonging as your birthright.

Hands On Education and Healing

Somatic Scar and Trauma Resolution

Nervous System Regulation

Virtual Coaching and Support

Proven, Effective Practices for Lasting Change

Release the fear, pain, scars, and trauma patterns that have been holding you back.
Reclaim your aliveness and resilience.

As a Somatic Sexologist, Certified STREAM Pelvic Care Specialist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Erotic Blueprints Master Trainer, and Shibari Guide, my great joy is guiding courageous, willing explorers like you in restoring your aliveness so you can live and love in safety, joy, and wellness.

Anne More offers compassionate, practical hands-on Sex Education, Relationship Coaching, STREAM Somatic Trauma and Scar Release, and Sexological Bodywork virtually and in-person.

What clients say about working with me…

Anne helped me clear early childhood trauma I have been carrying for over 30 years. The destructive patterns, shame, whirling thoughts, chronic pain, and nightmares are GONE from my body. It's been a year since our work together now, and my body is my own again! I feel free, powerful, and alive.
S, Texas
“We loved each other, but we were on the edge of divorce and terrified of losing each other and all we had built over the years. Sex was nonexistent. We felt trapped in conflict. Now we are having the best sex life we've ever had, with daily connection and so much love! THANK you for saving our marriage."
D & L, Santa Fe
“This is life-changing work. I experienced sexual trauma and surgical trauma early in my adult life, that totally shut me down as a sexual being. Years of talk therapy and learning to live with it. After one immersion with Anne, everything poured out, then unwound and softened. Now I know: my pleasure is my own. My sexuality is MINE. I've reclaimed my innocence. And my power."
EM, Canada
“Layers and layers of release and acceptance. And then more layers. It was okay to bring all my grief, all my loss, my turn-on, anything and everything. For the first time in a very long time, I’m alive! And FULL of joy. I feel free, well, and whole. Thank you!”
AL, Costa Rica

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